Tiffany was born August 10, 1977 in Loma Linda,
California. She spent time growing up in California and while a
teen, she and her parents moved to Las Vegas. Tiffany loved Las
Vegas. It wasn't the bright lights of the strip, the shows or the
casino's. It was the weather that allowed her to ride her Honda
sport bike year around! She longed for the streets and tracks and
warm climate of Las Vegas. Tiffany was the youngest of the family.
She was the cutest little baby when mom brought her home; she only
got cuter as a toddler! Dad took plenty of pictures to prove it!
She was the sweetest little 7-year-old flower girl
in her oldest sister Cindy's wedding; she loved throwing those flower
petals. She was the broken hearted little girl when we lost our
sister Mary Alice at 25 years old (second to oldest) to complications
due to Juvenile Diabetes. She was the beautiful young lady who was
a bridesmaid in her Sister Holly's wedding. She was daddy's little
girl when he went fishing with her or piloted his airplane, once
she was old enough dad actually taught her to fly and eventually
she soloed herself! She even named her dog Cessna.
Tiffany was the bossy kid who wanted fly it or drive it herself.
She was mommy's baby girl, just as cute as any mom would want, they
baked, they sewed and they colored. With the other kids being older
it gave them precious time together. At a very young age Tiffany
developed the attitude "move it or lose it". The older
Tiffany got the more she wanted to fly it high, drive it fast, or
shoot it straight! She loved guns, fast cars, fast bikes, and flying
airplanes. We never knew how much of that attitude Tiffany would
need to face the battle of her life. Tiffany grew up to be a model
beautiful young woman at 5 foot 8 with striking dark hair and fair
skin, she was beautiful and confident.
In January of 1999 Tiffany started feeling really
tired. She was only 21 so it was not a feeling she was used to.
She was working in the administration offices of a major Hotel &
Casino in Las Vegas and loved her job. A few weeks went by and Tiffany
decided to see a Dermatologist about a mole that just didn't look
right. It was itchy and puffy and had been bleeding. The Dermatologist
let Tiffany know that it could be the reason for her fatigue. They
would immediately remove the mole and check for cancer. A week later
the results were in. Tiffany in fact did have Melanoma, skin cancer.
With all of this going on Tiffany never stopped
having the need for speed! She had gotten into sport bike riding
and it was above all her first love. She wasn't giving it up for
cancer. She rode as often as she could. She also got into web page
design as a result of her down time. She became known in the cyber-world
as sportbikegirl.com. On her web site Tiff promoted safe riding
and the things closest to her heart, women on sport bikes and melanoma.
She was shared her story with anyone who would log on. She has had
over 200,000 hits on her web site. She had so many friends around
the world. They would send cards and flowers wherever she might
be having treatment, and stayed in touch via her website!
From this point on Tiffany's life was never the
same. The cancer was in her lymphnodes and still in the area surrounding
the mole on her shin. During what was almost a three year fight
with Malignant Melanoma Tiffany went through 7 surgeries, a year
of interferon treatment, and then transferred to MD Anderson Cancer
Institute in Houston Texas for more heavy doses of chemotherapy.
This was beyond exhausting for her. Every other week from Las Vegas
Nevada to Houston Texas, it was a trek, both physically and emotionally.
With mom there for each and every little detail to care for her
every need, and precious friends and family sitting days and nights
in the room keeping watch while the chemo attacked her beautiful
body. Dad would need to stay back and work to provide for mom and
Tiffany; he would fly down at every opportunity.
As her hair began to fall out her weight fell too.
Tiffany would fight hard to get back to normal when she returned
to Vegas. Sometimes feeling well enough to ride behind a friend
on her favorite sport bike, but not able to pilot her own! After
a trip to MD Anderson Tiffany decided this would be her last trip.
It was just too much. She decided that she would return to Las Vegas
and her initial Doctors would again oversee her condition. Tiffany
had decided at that point no more chemotherapy. She didn't know
how much time she had, but whatever time she had it was going to
be feeling the best she possibly could and enjoying her time.
In June of 2001 she thought she might have endometriosis.
The surgery was scheduled for the end of July. She had been through
so much of this type of surgery it wasn't any big deal or didn't
give any of us much concern, until…. The surgery was over
and the Doctors said the cancer had spread to her female organs,
they couldn't do anything else. They closed her up and sent her
home and referred her back to her Oncologist.
The end of August 2001 Tiffany was told she might have another 6
months or so to live. As dad, mom, Tiffany, Holly and myself sat
in that Doctors office Tiffany bravely without hesitation, asked
for the reality of the time she had left on this earth. She was
stern, sharp, yet was very weak physically.
She took the news in a way that I know affected each of us in
that room. Holly and I had been staying with her at home during
this time, after the appointment, dad went to get the car, Holly
and mom stayed in the Doctors office to ask questions and I walked
out with dad and Tiffany. Dad walked away to get the car, and as
Tiffany sat in the wheel chair and I stood next to her she said,
"Cindy, you know I won't see Christmas this year and you know
it!" I responded by letting her know that the strength she
had shown these past years had been too much for me to take any
bets she wouldn't be around. I believed that with every breath I
took ~ but all of us knew the reality that her frail body weighing
about 80 pounds could only take so much. That was August 26th.
On August 28, 2001 Hospice arrived at my parents home to take care
of the details. Heart wrenching wouldn't be the right words, but
they're all I can come up with. The doctor had explained to Tiff
he couldn't do anything else "the cat was out of the bag"
and Hospice would now care for her. Tiffany spent about another
6 weeks at home and mostly in bed. With her great strength she never
complained, and I don't say that to be nice…. She never said
"why me?" She did whatever it took to get herself up to
use the restroom, take her medicines, drink liquids, and while she
was awake we watched movies on DVD and even talked about heaven!
I know my family would agree with me, these were difficult days
for all of us, we all lived in different states, yet we wanted to
be with her, and when one sister would leave, the other one would
come and so on. When I would leave we would hug and kiss and she
would say "now when will you be back, and thank you for taking
such good care of me". I know Tiffany treasured the time she
spent with her family. Tiffany even talked about how she consoled
our brother who was having a hard time dealing with her condition.
She told him "it'll be ok…just chill" as he wept
for her.
We counted it a blessing to get up with her in the middle of the
night, or run up and down the stairs all day. Listen by the monitor
to make sure she was breathing and give her back massages until
our hands couldn't move anymore! We just wanted to help take the
pain out of her lower back where the cancer had now spread.
We'd watch movies as long as she would stay awake and watch them!
Her mind was still very much in tact. She remembered movie lines,
and movie details like she had just seen the movie. We even were
able to share the details of September 11th and the attack on America,
when she would wake up after she found out about that, she wanted
to know more and be brought up to speed on the event. One day while
talking to mom she said, when the time comes I want just dad and
I here. That's exactly how it was. Tiffany succumbed to Malignant
Melanoma on October 8, 2001. At about 5am, weighing about 65 pounds
and still chatting with dad and mom. She just didn't wake up that
Monday morning.
It had been a week since I had last seen her. When I left for the
airport we asked her if she needed anything, she responded by saying
oh…."Just a cure for cancer and a million bucks!"
That was Tiffany. Holly had just left her the day before and I was
due to return that next week, I did return just a little earlier
than planned, but Tiffany had left for heaven! I had just missed
her. Most of the family had been there those past 8 weeks or so
at one time or another. Tiffany taught us all something; she maintained
her dignity, her respect for herself and other people and faced
reality head on. Our goal is to honor her wishes and work to inform
people about the serious dangers of the sun, funny looking moles,
the importance of sunscreen, and most of all - this disease has
no special preference . It will attack men and women at any age.
Tiffany' was the originator of this saying because it applied to
the track - she never knew it would apply to her life "Anyone
can ride fast in a straight line, it only counts in the twisties."
She really rode out the twisties.
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